Accepting” is allowing ourselves to be loved, or rather loving someone. However, deserve is more, the love you’ve earned and created, you’ve gradually won the love – sometimes this isn’t a good idea, we think we‘ve deserved it, but this could just be leading to our ignorance.
Keeping this in consideration, where is the quote we accept the love we think we deserve from?
This quote is spoken by Bill to Charlie in The Perks of Being a Wallflower, written by Stephen Chbosky (1999). The main character in this book (and noted wallflower), Charlie, asks his favorite English teacher one question.
Correspondingly, do we deserve to be loved? We all deserve love — just because we exist. And we all are loved each and every moment by the energy of love that is spirit/universe/God. But you will not know and feel this until you love yourself. … You will know you deserve love when you are loving to yourself.
Moreover, how do you attract the love you deserve?
17 Ways To Attract The Love You Deserve This Year
- Don’t take rejection personally. …
- Go with the flow, be in the moment, and don’t overthink. …
- Be honest about your feelings. …
- Let go of old, limiting beliefs that you don’t deserve happiness. …
- Put yourself out there. …
- Be open-minded. …
- Take good care of yourself.
How do you accept love from others?
The choice to receive love can be actualized through:
- Receiving love without obligation.
- Knowing one’s value.
- Expressing one’s need for help, love, or encouragement.
- Accepting compliments.
- Accepting help from others.
- Actively listening to others as they communicate.
Why do I love everyone and pick people?
Sam: Why do I and everyone I love pick people who treat us like we’re nothing? Charlie: We accept the love we think we deserve.
Who said we choose the love we deserve?
Stephen Chbosky
